4 Mistakes to Avoid During a Custody Battle

4 Mistakes to Avoid During a Custody Battle

Navigating a custody battle is one of the most challenging experiences for any parent. Every action—or misstep—can influence the court’s decision about your child’s future. Parents going through this process often ask questions like “What mistakes should I avoid during a custody battle?” and “What do judges look for in these cases?”

To help, here’s a breakdown of key errors to avoid and tips to strengthen your case.


1. Avoid Getting Arrested or Abusing Substances

One of the biggest concerns parents have is how issues like arrests or substance use could impact their custody case. The truth? These are major red flags for courts.

  • Arrests: Even without a conviction, being arrested—especially for violent crimes, DUIs, or drug possession—can severely damage your credibility as a parent. If the child was present, the consequences are even more severe.
  • Substance Use: Judges scrutinize any signs of drug or alcohol abuse, as it raises questions about your ability to provide a safe environment.

What Judges Look For: Evidence that you are a stable, responsible parent. For example, attending rehabilitation or therapy programs can demonstrate commitment to change​.


2. Follow All Court Orders

Ignoring court orders is a common mistake that can hurt your case. Many parents ask, “What happens if I violate temporary custody orders?”

  • Temporary orders are legally binding and dictate everything from parenting time to decision-making rights.
  • Disobeying these orders—like not returning your child on time or moving without permission—can make you seem disrespectful of the court’s authority.

Pro Tip: Always adhere strictly to court orders. If a change is necessary, work through the legal system to request modifications.


3. Avoid Social Media Missteps

“Can social media affect my custody case?” The short answer is yes, and significantly.

  • Posts, selfies, or messages can be used as evidence against you. Even an innocent photo or status update can be twisted to suggest irresponsible behavior.
  • Venting about your ex-partner, the judge, or the case itself can paint you in a negative light.

Golden Rule: If you wouldn’t want a judge to see it in court, don’t post it. Better yet, avoid social media entirely during your custody case​.


4. Refuse to Co-Parent or Be Unreasonable

One of the most common questions during custody disputes is “What do judges look for in co-parenting arrangements?”

Judges favor parents who demonstrate cooperation and prioritize their child’s well-being. Refusing to communicate or co-parent sends a message that you’re unwilling to work toward your child’s best interests.

What Not to Do:

  • Badmouthing the other parent to your child or in court.
  • Blocking the other parent’s access to the child without valid safety concerns.
  • Failing to collaborate on decisions about the child’s education, health, or activities.

What to Do Instead: Show you can work with your co-parent, even under challenging circumstances. Courts value stability and effective communication​.


FAQs About Custody Battles

1. What evidence can help me win a custody case?
Documentation is key:

  • Keep records of parenting schedules, communication with the other parent, and receipts for child-related expenses.
  • Present organized, credible evidence to show you’re the best fit for custody​.

2. Can drug use or past mistakes be overcome?
Yes, but you must show progress. Judges consider rehabilitation efforts and whether substance use impacts parenting ability​.

3. Is it better to settle or go to trial?
Whenever possible, settle disputes outside court. Judges appreciate parents who can negotiate and co-parent effectively​.


Final Thoughts: Be Strategic and Stay Focused

Custody battles are emotionally and legally complex, but avoiding these common mistakes can help protect your rights. Judges prioritize the child’s best interests, so focus on stability, cooperation, and following the court’s guidelines.

If you’re navigating a custody battle, seeking professional legal guidance is essential. Contact an experienced family law attorney to help build your case and secure the best possible outcome for you and your child​.

4 Key Elements in a Wrongful Death Case

4 Key Elements in a Wrongful Death Case

‘wrongful death’ is a legal term describing the death of an individual caused by the misconduct or negligence of other people or entities. Typically an immediate family member(s) of the deceased victim will seek a wrongful death claim to obtain compensation for emotional and financial damages.

There are 4 key elements involved in a wrongful death as defined by law. Surviving members submitting a claim must prove each element to win a case for financial compensation.

Negligence:
The surviving family members or their legal representatives must prove that the death of their loved one was caused (in part or in whole) by the misconduct, carelessness, or negligent actions.

Breach of Duty: 
To be successful, it must be proven that the defendant owed a duty to the deceased victim. For example, the duty of a motorist is to drive safely and follow traffic laws. Doctors have the duty to maintain a patient’s health. It’s up to the plaintiff to establish how the defendant’s duty was breached through negligent actions.

Causation: 
In addition, the wrongful death lawsuit plaintiff must also prove how the defendant’s negligence caused their loved one’s death.

Damages: 
The death of the victim must have generated quantifiable damages such as hospitalization, medical expenses, funeral and burial costs, loss of income and potential earnings, guidance, and inheritance along with pain and suffering of the victim prior to death.

A wrongful death lawsuit is a civil action and not a criminal case, because of this, the burden of proof is set lower. In order to be successful, the lawsuit must be won on the preponderance of evidence as opposed to the standard set in a criminal case of being guilty beyond a reasonable doubt.

Selecting a skilled lawyer is an essential component when pursuing a civil action for wrongful death case.
Attorney Charles Bendig has won numerous wrongful death cases and can assist you with any questions or concerns you may have. Call today.

3 Important Reasons Why You Need an Estate Plan

3 Important Reasons Why You Need an Estate Plan

If you think estate planning only involves drafting a will to leave your belongings to whichever heirs you choose, you’re not alone.

​Many people don’t realize there are multiple elements of estate planning that should be addressed, and while wills are an important part of the process, it doesn’t address all the issues that could arise.

1. Not Only for Death

A common misconception about estate planning is that it only addresses issues that arise after someone dies. The truth is there are very important issues that arise when a person is alive. Having a solid estate plan in place could help to ensure that there will be no problems between family members.

If you’ve made financial investments, including real estate, you will want to make sure these things are protected should you become ill or otherwise incapacitated. And what about the family business? If you have one, you’ll want to make sure it’s well-insulated from any problems in the event you are unable to make needed decisions.

An estate planning attorney can help you set up a power of attorney. This allows you to choose a person you trust to make important decisions in the event you are unable to, and not have the courts do it for you.

2. Your Health

There’s a possibility that you know families or have heard about families where a loved one has become ill or incapacitated and are no longer able to make their own medical decisions. When and if this happens, someone needs to have the authority to be a proxy. You have the right to make your own medical decisions as far as what you will and won’t allow as life-saving measures. If you’re unable to do so, it’s important to have someone else you trust to speak for you.

Your estate planning attorney can document those wishes in what’s referred to as a living will. You can also have your attorney draw up paperwork that will appoint a healthcare power of attorney which assigns an individual of your choice to make sure your wishes for medical treatment are kept.

3. Your Children

Having an estate plan is so important if you have young children. An estate plan can ensure they will be taken care of by naming who you want to be the legal guardian, and keeping full control of who will raise your child should you no longer be here. Without this document in place, the court will decide who will raise your child and it will not necessarily be the person you would have chosen.

You can also set up financial provisions for your children. Trusts can be formed that will provide for your child as they grow up, as well as once they’ve reached adulthood. When setting up a trust, you assign someone to be the trustee overseeing the funds, and also designate when the child should take control of the funds once they reach adulthood.

An estate planning attorney, like Chuck Bendig, can explain the process to you in more depth and go over what elements would be the best choices for your specific situation.

Contact Charles Bendig today and get the process started.

Light Impact Soft Tissue (LIST) Where Defendant Offers An Expert About Medical Injury

Light Impact Soft Tissue (LIST) Where Defendant Offers An Expert About Medical Injury

Light impact soft tissue personal injury cases are notoriously difficult to settle. Insurance companies take a hardline, at times refusing to pay even medical bills and a reasonable amount for pain and suffering. (In fairness to the defense, many times juries don’t compensate very much either).

A recent movement has been to attempt to hire an expert witness who will testify that based upon the damage to the vehicle, it is not possible for anyone to have been injured.

There are two fundamental problems to this expert witness testimony.

The first problem is the expert witness typically is not a licensed doctor or chiropractor. Instead the expert is either a mechanical engineer, or a traffic reconstruction retired police officer. Neither of these experts have the necessary medical training to offer testimony about medical causation of injury.

The second problem is the expert is not telling the jury anything they don’t already know. Any individual intuitively knows that automobile collisions with extensive property damage are more likely to produce injury than automobile collision with little or no property damage. Therefore, the expert adds little to the jury’s knowledge.

A recent Motion in Limine was before a magistrate of the Franklin County Common Pleas Court. The magistrate in his preliminary ruling sustained the motion, not allowing the expert testimony. (Case settled before trial).

The defense offered expert testimony through a company Introtech . Their credentials as traffic reconstruction experts were valid. The court found however that the testimony did not add information to the juror’s knowledge.

1) The totality of the expert’s opinion is that the small force shown by his studies leads to small or no injuries. How is that outside of the lay persons’ knowledge or experience? A little hit normally hurts less than a big hit. Azzano v. O’Malley-Clements, 126 Ohio App.3d 368 (8th Dist.) at page 376 wherein the Court stated: “. . . we conclude that jurors are capable of determining whether a plaintiff has sustained injury in a collision when they are presented with information concerning the details of that collision.”

2) The common idea of lay people is that a car accident with minimal property damage means a small chance that someone could be injured. Hence, the expert’s testimony does not dispel a misconception but supports the common understanding of a typical lay person and is therefore not needed and/or duplicative of other evidence addressing the same topic; i.e., photographs of the damage, the parties’ testimony concerning the size of impact, etc.

Will the testimony even be helpful? Will it be redundant? If allowed to be given/heard, will it be unduly prejudicial to the Plaintiff in a Evid.R. 403 analyses?

         All factors seem to weight against the testimony. (Decision Ward v Mitchell, et al., 17CV003533).

        Other cases have found non-medical experts cannot offer testimony on medical causation issues.

In Smelser v. Norfolk Southern Ry. Co., 105 F.3d 299, 46 Fed. R. Evid. Serv. 468, 1997 FED App. 0033P (6th Cir. 1997), it was the plaintiff who proffered a biomechanical engineer to testify that a shoulder belt, not a lap belt, failed in an automobile accident, causing him injury. The Sixth Circuit found the expert’s opinion as to causation should have been excluded because it went beyond his expertise in biomechanics, and also lacked reliability. This was in part based on the biomechanical engineer’s admission:
“… that biomechanics are qualified to determine what injury causation forces are in general and can tell how a hypothetical person’s body will respond to these forces, but are not qualified to render medical opinions regarding the precise cause of a specific injury. He acknowledged that each individual person has his own tolerance level, and therefore, admitted he could testify only in general terms, i.e., that “X” forces would generally lead to “Y” injuries and “Y” injuries are consistent with those the plaintiff claims to have suffered.” [Emphasis added.]

In Azzano v. O’Malley-Clements, 126 Ohio App. 3d 368, 375–76, 710 N.E.2d 373, 377–78 (1998), the Appellate Court found reversible error in allowing any testimony by an expert with inadequate credentials, very comparable to credentials offered by Introtech employees.

Accident reconstruction is fundamentally different from biomedical engineering, and fundamentally different from medical training qualifying for stating a medical opinion.

“Cox testified that he is the chief executive officer of his Houston-based forensic engineering firm. He stated that since 1986, he has performed accident reconstruction and “biomechanical analysis,” which he defined as the “forces on the body, how the body responds to those forces.” He testified that the area is a hybrid between “engineering and medical” fields. Cox was also a police officer for five years and learned accident investigationHe had taken some engineering courses but did not complete his degree. He did not list any medical training. He stated that he had attended a conference which discussed human tolerance response to acceleration and has reviewed similar data in various journals. Cox also stated that he has done sixty to seventy impact tests in which **378 he measured structural deflection and body acceleration.

In this instance, he stated that the collision was “probably bumper to bumper.” He did not examine the cars involved in this collision but testified that he reviewed crash test data for Ford Tempos and Ford Rangers, which he obtained from the Internet, and also reviewed bumper standards issued by the federal government. He also conducted a crash test using a 1990 Chevrolet Lumina and a 1984 Ranger, and he admitted that the instant collision involved a 1993 Ford Tempo and a 1994 Ranger.

Cox testified that, based upon his review of papers which quantify muscle responses at crashes of various speeds, injuries generally occur where the occupants of a vehicle experience a 5.6 m.p.h. change in velocity. The papers were not identified and were not introduced into evidence, however. Cox opined that in this instance, the velocity change was less than five miles per hour. Further, despite the trial court’s initial determination that Cox could not testify as to what happens to the body in a collision, Cox stated that, based upon previous crash tests which he had performed, as well as “overwhelming literature,” “symptoms don’t occur” with this acceleration.

Reviewing this testimony within reference to Evid.R. 702, we note as a preliminary matter that no evidence was presented to demonstrate that Cox had ever been qualified to provide expert testimony in court. As to his specialized knowledge, skill, experience, training, or education regarding the subject matter, Cox has no degree in his fieldSignificantly, Cox has no medical trainingIt is clear that Cox had experience evaluating crash test information, but the crash tests which he conducted involved vehicles of different years or models than those operated by the parties herein. Cox stated that he obtained general crash test information concerning the types of vehicles from the Internet and federal bumper standards. These documents were not introduced into evidence, however.

Further, Cox admitted that the characteristics of the occupants, including their height, weight, and seating positions, can determine whether an injury will occur, but there was no evidence that he considered plaintiff Paul Azzano’s characteristics in this matter. Thus, we believe that while Cox may be qualified to perform accident reconstruction and to evaluate the forces interacting in a collision, he was not properly qualified to opine regarding the likelihood of bodily symptoms resulting from such collision.

Considering the next factor, we conclude that jurors are capable of determining whether a plaintiff has sustained injury in a collision when they are presented with information concerning the details of that collision. While expert testimony can be helpful, it is not required. Rather, the jurors, as determiners of credibility, must decide whether an injury claim is genuine. Moreover, Cox’s testimony was premised upon his claim that the accident was “probably bumper to bumper.”

Next, it is unclear to us whether Cox’s testimony was based in whole or major part upon his own observations, rather than the conclusions of others or other hearsay. Indeed, Cox testified that there is “overwhelming literature” indicating that symptoms of injury would not occur under the acceleration he calculated in this matter, but literature was not subject to cross-examination and supporting data were not identified or introduced.

Considering all of the foregoing, we must conclude that in this case, the trial court’s decision to admit the expert’s testimony was an abuse of discretion.” Azzano v. O’Malley-Clements, 126 Ohio App. 3d 368, 375–76, 710 N.E.2d 373, 377–78 (1998)

In Rybaczewski v. Kingsley, 1998 WL 200227 (Ohio Ct. App. 6th Dist. Lucas County 1998), on reconsideration in part, 1998 WL 372723 (Ohio Ct. App. 6th Dist. Lucas County 1998) the Appellate Court found “The most that (the biomechanical engineer) should have been permitted to testify to was the amount of force appellant experienced in the accident.”;
“We find that (the biomechanical engineer) did offer a “medical opinion” when he stated that Mr. Rybaczewski was not injured by the accident. This is a question that requires expert medical testimony by a physician. The most that King should have been permitted to testify to was the amount of force appellant experienced in the accident. Rybaczewski v. Kingsley, No. L-97-1048, 1998 WL 200227, at *6 (Ohio Ct. App. Apr. 24, 1998), on reconsideration in part, No. L-97- 1048, 1998 WL 372723 (Ohio Ct. App. June 29, 1998)

Impressive credentials are no substitute for a medical or chiropractic license. The plaintiffs’ expert in Gammill v Jack Gammill v. Jack Williams Chevrolet, Inc., 972 S.W.2d 713, Prod. Liab. Rep. (CCH) P 15362 (Tex. 1998), a professor of mechanical engineering who, (unlike most designated experts), had actually “conducted research in mechanics, dynamics, biomechanics, vehicle occupant kinematics, and vehicle occupant restraint systems” (id. at 716), while qualified to opine whether a seatbelt was defective, lacked any qualifications to testify as to the cause of an infant’s death in a car crash.

In Cromer v. Mulkey Enterprises, Inc., 254 Ga. App. 388, 562 S.E.2d 783 (2002), causation testimony was precluded despite the biomechanical engineer’s Ph.D. in physics, his 22 years of university study of the behavior of materials under different levels of stress, impact, and assault, his participation in seminars on low-speed automobile accidents, and his authoring a book on low-speed impacts and biomechanics.

Even if the expert has some medical education, this does not qualify him to render an injury-causation opinion. In Salerno v. Tudor, 2002 WL 120608 (Cal. App. 1st Dist. 2002), unpublished the biomechanical engineer, who had taught anatomy at Davis Medical School and worked in the spine clinic at California Davis Medical Center, testified that there was “no mechanism for a herniation— herniated disk” in the subject rear-end collision. Ruling this was improper, the appellate court stated:
Since Liptai was not a medical doctor, she was improperly providing the jury with assistance in determining the ultimate issue: whether the force could have caused Salerno to suffer a herniated disk. She had a specialized knowledge about the forces caused by the accident, but she did not have the training and experience to testify that Salerno did not suffer a herniated disk. [Emphasis added.]

The biomechanical expert in Combs v. Norfolk and Western Ry. Co., 256 Va. 490, 507 S.E.2d 355 (1998), besides being a professor of engineering, science and mechanics, and the director of biomedical engineering at Virginia Polytechnic Institute, had a bachelor’s degree in mechanical engineering, a Ph.D. in biomedical engineering, and a master’s degree in medical science. Yet the Virginia Supreme Court found he should not have been allowed to opine as to whether the plaintiff could have ruptured a disk in the subject car accident. Recognizing that the very concept of allowing this type of testimony purports to elevate the biomechanical engineer’s opinion over that of a physician who has examined, diagnosed and treated plaintiff, and equating the proposed testimony to practicing medicine (without a license) the Virginia Supreme Court wrote:

The practice of medicine includes the diagnosis and treatment of human physical ailments, conditions, diseases, pain, and infirmities. The term “diagnose” is defined as “to determine the type and cause of a health condition on the basis of signs and symptoms of the patient.” Mosby’s Medical Dictionary 480 (5th ed.1998). Thus, the question of causation of a human injury is a component part of a diagnosis, which in turn is part of the practice of medicine.

Schneck was qualified at trial as an expert in the field of biomechanical engineering and he was competent to render an opinion on the compression forces placed on Combs’ spine at the time of the incident. However, Schneck was not a medical doctor and, thus, was not qualified to state an expert medical opinion regarding what factors cause a human disc to rupture.

If the court decides to allow this type of testimony. There are several articles compiling medical research establishing there is no minimum threshold of property damage for injury. These articles emphasize that thousands of different configurations of the human body at the moment of impact make it impossible to predict injury based on property damage, where a different configuration at the time of impact, results in substantially increased vulnerability and probability of injury. Injury Threshold: Whiplash Associated Disorders, Journal of Manipulative and Physiological Therapeutics, Volume 23, Number 6, August 2000, Pages 420-427; Rear-end Impacts: Vehicle And Occupant Response , Journal Of Manipulative And Physiological Therapeutics, Volume 21, Number 9, Pages 629-639. Plaintiff’s expert can review these and refer to them, if he/she finds them to be reliable authority. Ohio Evid. R. 803 (18). 
Conclusion
If you represent a plaintiff in a personal injury case with low property damage, and the defense offers expert testimony, you should file a Motion in Limine, to exclude this testimony.

If the court over rules the motion, consider having your medical expert witness refer to research articles explaining why there is no minimum threshold of property damage for personal injury.

​-Charlles Bendig

Family Fights Over Inheritance – When ‘Fair’ isn’t always equal

Family Fights Over Inheritance – When ‘Fair’ isn’t always equal

Thinking about your eventual demise is not exactly something that people like to spend a lot of time doing. Despite this, planning for the future and the distribution of your assets to loved ones is a necessary part of ensuring that your wishes are carried out in the way you’d like.

By creating a clear plan for your final wishes with an attorney, you can ensure that complications are mitigated before they arise.

You will want to make sure that the ones you love are able to look to your will as a roadmap for settling your estate as quickly as possible. Losing a loved one can be difficult for anyone to deal with, by having a will in place, they will have the ability to spend time grieving rather than deciphering how you would have liked your assets divided.

CONTENTIOUS FAMILY SITUATIONS
At times, family can become estranged from one another. Disagreements or tensions can arise that make family relationship complicated. Sometimes, when a person passes without a will in place, family members may fight over your possessions. This can range from money, to valuables but also family heirlooms.

Grief can sometimes cause people to behave irrationally. They may be looking to hold onto things you once held dear as a way to keep your memory alive. By having an attorney draft your will, you can have a clear path to guide loved ones after you pass away.

Here are some examples of situations that are likely to cause heightened feuds within a family when a loved one passes away:

Giving a beneficiary a portion of their inheritance before you die but not others in your family who stand to inherit assets. Be clear in your will if this was actually the case.

You may want to make sure that you identify only one person to hold the responsibility of trustee. By appointing more people to manage your will, could put them at risk of disagreeing or fighting over how the estate should be managed.

If you are married a second time, or later in life, you will want to outline clearly who stands to inherit what. ALWAYS update your estate plan or will after any changes in marital status.

You will want to make sure that you are clear which of your assets can be sold and which you expect beneficiaries to cherish. Family members who are destitute or are in need of money are more likely to sell things that you would like to keep in your family.

UPDATE IT OFTEN
If you have disinherited someone within your family such as a child, you will want to make sure that your will is as updated as soon as possible. It is possible for someone who has been left out of a will to challenge it in probate.

UNDUE INFLUENCE
If the will being created is for an elderly member of your family, you will want to make sure that they are not swayed or manipulated into leaving someone an inheritance who is taking advantage of them.

SOUND MIND
When a family member suffers from substance abuse or a mental health disorder, their judgment will surely be clouded after losing a loved one. They are also more likely to sever ties with family members and act irrationally when it comes to making decisions based on your will.

An attorney can serve a number of purposes when it comes to your will.  Some people may even appoint an attorney to help manage the estate or act as executor after passing away. This can prove to be beneficial in situations where family dynamics are complicated. Having a professional, who is impartial, can help ensure that your wishes are carried out in the way that you would have liked. An attorney may even be able to help families navigate challenging familial situations when dividing your assets and carrying out your final wishes. If you need any legal help regarding wills, contact Attorney Charles Bendig for any information.